John is 41-years old and has been married for 8-years. John and his wife, Mrs. John, began having marital problems 3-years after they were married. John and Mrs. John have 3-children. Since they married, John received two promotions at work. John now makes $ 100,000 per year as a sales manager for a pharmaceutical company. John’s position enables Mrs. John to quit her job and stay home. John wants to keep Mrs. John happy, so he agrees to Mrs. John quitting her job and staying home. John begins to work more, seeking additional job promotional opportunities to provide for his family. Now that Mrs. John stays home and is no longer an income earner (an asset) she has more time to spend John’s money (a liability).

Mrs. John likes to spend money decorating their home, buying expensive clothes, handbags, etc; leaving their family more and more in debt. Mrs. John’s spending habits puts more pressure on John to make a bigger income. John works longer hours working and spends less and less time at home with his children.

Now that John works more, the problems between John and his wife are getting more severe. Mr. and Mrs. John fight more frequently and begin counseling sessions, which ultimately fail. Fights occur more often and with grater intensity; usually stemming from Mrs. John’s spending habits and refusal to provide John with his needs. Another year passes. John and his wife argue about everything and resentment is a giant living in their home. Both John and Mrs. John are ready to be out of their miserable marriage.

John is miserable and Mrs. John knows it, but she does not care. Mrs. John spends time with her divorced girlfriends, who encourage Mrs. John to consider her options.

John is tired of being a slave to a wife that already checked out of the marriage. John comes home from a business trip and is greeted by a sheriff’s deputy, who proceeds to serve John with a divorce petition. John’s life is about to dramatically change and he has a choice to make.

Remember, John has been a slave forced to work 60+ hours each week to provide for the family. John was required to attend business meetings and dinners for clients at night, all for the sake of promotions and greater earnings to provide for his family. John is very worried about what will happen with his three children. John loves his children dearly.

Remember, John’s wife has been a stay at home mom for the past several years and she quit her job to take care of the family. The fact is that she shopped and spent every dime that John ever made and then some, but this is not how the court will see the story. The economy is now in a recession. Mrs. John has not worked for 5-years and has limited opportunities for employment.

Mrs. John wants the home, the Suburban, ½ of John’s retirement investments, child support and alimony.

John has two ways that he can proceed.

1. He can purchase our divorce action plan to help him navigate through the divorce process and learn how to divorce a spouse with a winning outcome, or…
2. John can hire and lawyer to take care of everything and hope for the best.

John hires a lawyer to solve all of his problems. John chooses to ignore the all important planning part of the divorce process. John is not controlling his divorce, which will soon control him, access to his children and his finances for many years to come. John is completely disillusioned about the divorce process and does not get help with divorce issues.

The first thing John does is buys a new car. Things are now so bad at home between John and his wife that it makes the Vietnam War look like a peace parade. Life in John’s home is a living hell and it’s taking a toll on their children, too. John begins looking for an apartment, but is having a hard time affording both the family home and an apartment. Living together is miserable through divorce is miserable.

When Mrs. John is ready, she starts a fight with John and attacks John without mercy. Mrs. John begins to call John names; pushing and shoving John and verbally abusing poor John. After 15-minutes of battling, John pushes Mrs. John away from him and asks Mrs. John to leave him alone. Mrs. John falls and cuts her lip open. Mrs. John proceeds to call 911 and tells the dispatcher to send the police, because he husband is abusing her.

The police arrive in 4-minutes. John is still upset. When the police enter the home, they talk to both parties. Mrs. John is crying and has a fat lip from falling. Mrs. John is going to win an academy award, because she is acting like a battered wife. John has never hit or abused his wife. Mrs. John explains to the female police officer how John is abusive to her and that she fears for her safety.

After 15-minutues of interviewing both John and Mrs. John, the Police inform John that he is being placed under arrest for domestic abuse. The police are removing John from his home and Mrs. John is filing an order for protection. John spends the night in jail and it released in the morning. Two days later, a deputy sheriff arrives at John’s work and serves him with a summons to appear for a restraining order hearing.

The day of the hearing, John arrives with his lawyer. Mrs. John also has her lawyer present. After a 22-mintue hearing and Mrs. John earning yet another academy award, the order for protection is granted. John is now legally restrained from going back to his home. John does not have access to any of his personal belongings or files. John cannot see his children, because his wife will not allow him to.

John’s lawyer immediately files a notice for temporary relief and the hearing is scheduled for three weeks out. John is helpless for three weeks and cannot see his kids until the hearing.

Feeling defeated, John moves in with his old college buddy and crashes on the couch. John goes out with his friends and begins meeting ladies at the local bar.

Three weeks later, the initial hearing date arrives. John desperately misses his children, which he has only spoken with on the phone for the passed three weeks. Both sides submit supporting affidavits and testimony. 20-mintues later, John is allowed to have access to his kids every other weekend. Mrs. John is granted exclusive right to the martial home and child support at the hearing. John is told that he must continue to make all house and car payments; and furthermore must pay his wife temporary spousal support and child support.

Let’s break it down:

John will pay for the mortgage, $ 2,300.00 per month
John will pay for Mrs. John’s Suburban $ 300.00 per month
John was ordered to pay $ 500.00 per month in temp. spousal support
John was orders to pay $ 900.00 per month in temp. child support.

John was ordered to pay $ 4,000.00 per month

Remember John makes a $ 100,000.00 per year.
Minus taxes: $ 35,000.00
That leaves John with $ 66,000.00 net income per year; or $ 5500.00 per month.

After John was pays for the mortgage, Mrs. John’s Suburban, temporary spousal support and temporary child support, John is left with $ 1,500.00 per month. This is a very common outcome during the initial stages of divorce. The simple fact is that the court does not care how John will live. John cannot just quit his job and take a job at McDonalds to make a smaller income and lower payments; because the court is smart and does not allow this. John would still be legally required to make his payments, so don’t think there is an easy way out. Once you are ordered to pay, you must legally pay of you.

We can show you have to navigate through these problems.

How will john rent an apartment, make his new car payment, pay mounting lawyer’s bills and live his life on $ 1,500.00 per month?

John just realized into his worse night mirror is coming true. John has worked hard to build a career and a lifestyle for his family, only to be put into poverty. John is being forced to live a lower class of life, while he makes a 6-figure income. There is a reason why the courts rule this way. Courts always favor women. The reason why courts always support women is covered in our action plan. As a man, you are going into your divorce with a significant handicap. We can show you how to equal the playing the field.

John and Mrs. John continue to battle for the next 6-months over assets and child custody. John is required to give an oral deposition to Mrs. John’s lawyer (honest oral testimony about anything and everything they want to know). John has to provide detailed information, under oath, related to his finances and taxes, etc. during the marriage. There’s no way to hide. Affidavits are flying back and forth; pointing figures with “he said/she said”. The legal bills are mounting to tens of thousands of dollars. John goes through a custody evaluation to determine who is best suited to care for the kids. This involves court appointed psychologist who always have a female bias. Remember, John is living in a crash pad with a former college buddy. Mrs. John still has the big house. Who do you think will look better to the custody evaluator? John works all day and Mrs. John still stays at home with the kids. John wants equal access to his children; but Mrs. John wants John to see his kids every-other weekend. John lives with his college buddy full time, because he could not afford a home without a roommate. At the pre-trail, John and Mrs. John do not settle their case. Trail is settled for 3-months later. At trial, the assets are divided equally. The marital home is sold, but the net profit is only $ 10,000; because of a home equity loan and a downturn in the housing market.

John is ordered to give Mrs. John ½ of his 401K. Mrs. John gets custody of the kids. John gets an every other weekend parenting schedule with his children. John will get his kids 4-days a month. John is ordered to pay spousal support (alimony) for 4-years and child support, education and medical expenses until the 3-children are 18. Oh yeah, John must also provide health insurance for his ex-wife for the next 4-years, too.

John just went through divorce hell. John made every mistake along the way. John did not have an action plan. John’s lawyer did nothing but process paperwork and rack up billable hours. John’s lawyer lost this case, but he still got paid just the same. There is no incentive for a divorce lawyer to care about the outcome of their client’s divorce. They get paid either way! This is why many people getting divorced file bankruptcy immediately after. By the way smart guy, you cannot file bankruptcy to avoid child support or alimony. A normal person cannot afford to go through a divorce that goes to trial.

Don’t be mistaken about your divorce or divorce custody laws. John’s case is not unique. John’s case is very typical. Divorces like John’s happen every day in America! Now that Mrs. John is divorced, she is dating other men and paying for their dinner, compliments of John. The girl John was dating during his divorce has dumped poor John, because his car was repossessed and he couldn’t afford to take her out. John’s credit is shot and he is broke. John made many, many mistakes that are well covered in our action plan.

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